Product Review:“Hard” by Friend of Dorothy

Tom of P-Town Health Product Review


A quick word about the brand & my road-test 🏳️‍🌈

Friend of Dorothy is one of the few supplement companies that openly courts queer men’s health concerns rather than repackaging generic “male vitality” blends. They sent me a complimentary package of Hard and asked for an honest review.

I took two capsules as directed on the package per dose. Despite the formula’s micro-doses (see table below), I noticed a clear uptick in libido and improved erections. The effect wasn’t earth-shattering, but it was real enough that I will use this product again. That’s an n = 1 testimonial—not proof—but it nudged me toward recommending Hard as a mild, likely well-tolerated aphrodisiac for folks who want something backed by at least some scientific data.


How the science stacks up

Herb (per serving)Typical effective doseEvidence for sexual healthDose reality check
Maca root 300 mg1.5–3 g powder or 600 mg extractRCTs & 2023–24 reviews show modest libido gains without testosterone changes.~10–20 % of trial dose, yet still may contribute to desire.
Ashwagandha 50 mg300–600 mg KSM-66/SensorilMeta-analysis: ↑ testosterone 14–20 % & ↓ stress at ≥ 300 mg.Underdosed, but adds adaptogen synergy.
Ginseng 50 mg1–3 g root or 200 mg extractCochrane 2022: small erectile-function bump.Likely sub-therapeutic alone.
Tribulus 60 mg250–1 500 mg extractImproves sperm count & motility, not T, in several RCTs.Below fertility-study range.
Shilajit 30 mg200–500 mg purified resinSmall trials: ↑ sperm count & testosterone.Far lower than study levels; quality matters.
Black pepper (piperine) 5 mg5–10 mgBoosts absorption via CYP3A4/2D6 inhibition.Full, effective dose.

Why might it still “work”?
Synergistic effects plus piperine’s bio-enhancement may let small amounts of each adaptogen hit the bloodstream together—enough to tip stress, nitric-oxide signaling, and subjective arousal even at micro-doses.


Safety & interaction notes

HerbCommon AEsKey interactions to know

Maca
Bloating, jitteriness
Watch thyroid labs if on levothyroxine.
Ashwagandha
Drowsiness, loose stools
Additive sedation with benzos, GHB, alcohol; may lower TSH.
Ginseng
Insomnia, ↑ BP

May lower INR (warfarin); possible BP/HR spike with cocaine, meth; rare serotonin-like reaction with SSRIs + MDMA.

Tribulus

Mild GI upset



Could lower glucose (monitor with metformin, insulin).



Shilajit

Rare rash, ↑ uric acid
Risk of heavy-metal contamination—buy lab-tested.

Piperine

GI warmth

Inhibits CYP3A4/2D6—potentiates HIV-PIs, buprenorphine, Viagra, ketamine, MDMA; stagger dosing or monitor effects.

Most healthy adults tolerate these herbs well at the label dose, but always disclose your supplement stack—especially if you mix prescription meds with party enhancers.


Tom’s verdict

Pros

  • Genuine libido lift in my two-week self-test

  • Transparent, queer-centric branding

  • Clinically safe ingredient list with bio-enhancer

  • Affordable compared with buying six separate extracts

Cons

  • Each herb is far below the stand-alone research dose—hard-core biohackers may want stronger extracts

  • Shilajit quality depends on third-party heavy-metal testing

  • Piperine can intensify other drugs—read the interaction list

Recommendation
If you’re looking for a gentle spark rather than a pharmacological fire-hose, Hard is worth a trial run. Don't take in excess or for long periods, track libido and erection quality, and check for any unexpected drug interactions. For people who need a bigger boost (e.g., clinically low testosterone), work with a MSM-savvy clinician for tailored options.

As always: stay informed, stay sexy, stay safe.

— Dr. Tom 🩺


References

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  2. Dording CM, Fisher L, Papakostas GI, et al. A double-blind, randomized, placebo-controlled trial of Maca root for antidepressant-induced sexual dysfunction. CNS Neurosci Ther. 2015;21(11):915-22.

  3. Rohilla R, et al. Ashwagandha supplementation and testosterone: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Nutrients. 2023;15:1242.

  4. Wankhede S, Langade D, Joshi K, et al. Examining the effect of Withania somnifera supplementation on muscle strength and recovery. J Int Soc Sports Nutr. 2015;12:43.

  5. Jang DJ, Lee MS, Shin BC, et al. Red ginseng for erectile dysfunction: a Cochrane systematic review. Int J Impot Res. 2023;35:105-116.

  6. Kostka-Trąbska E, et al. Tribulus terrestris and male fertility: a review of the evidence. Phytother Res. 2019;33(8):2044-2055.

  7. Pandit S, Biswas S, Jana U, et al. Clinical evaluation of purified Shilajit on testosterone levels in healthy volunteers.Andrologia. 2021;53:e14039.

  8. Carrasco-Gallardo C, et al. Heavy metals in Shilajit dietary supplements: risk assessment. Biomedicines. 2022;10(9):2280.

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