“Rimming” 101: Why It Feels Amazing — and the Gut Bugs Your Doctor May Miss



1. Why it (really) feels so good

  • Neuro-rich real estate. The anal rim and perineum are packed with free nerve endings (A-δ and C fibers) plus branches of the pudendal and vagus nerves. Light, wet stimulation sends a direct line of sensory traffic to the sacral spinal cord and onward to the limbic “reward” loop.

  • Parasympathetic power-up. Gentle oral pressure activates baro-receptors around the sphincter, triggering a vagal surge of acetylcholine → smooth-muscle relaxation, lower heart rate, and that warm, floaty feeling many guys describe.

  • Oxytocin + dopamine cocktail. Oral–anal contact is about as intimate as it gets; MRI work on affectionate touch shows a rapid rise in oxytocin and nucleus-accumbens dopamine, amplifying trust and arousal.

  • Add the flavor layer. Taste and scent cues from apocrine glands light up the same olfactory cortex that responds to pheromones, folding another sensory channel into the mix.

No wonder survey work puts lifetime analingus experience at 60 – 80 % among sexually active gay and bisexual men.


2. The GI risks your average gastroenterologist never learned about

PathogenWhat it isHow you get itTelltale symptoms
Brachyspira pilosicoli/aalborgi (intestinal spirochetosis)Spirochete that attaches to colonic epitheliumDirect oral–anal contact, shared toysPersistent gas, bloating, mushy stools, rectal bleeding
Giardia duodenalisFlagellated protozoanCysts survive on perianal skin, thrive in water-based lubesSulfur burps, watery diarrhea, weight loss
Shigella, Campylobacter, Salmonella, EHECEnteric bacteriaMinute fecal inoculum during rimming or “rimming snowball”Fever, cramps, bloody/mucoid stool
Entamoeba histolytica, Blastocystis spp.Protozoa once thought “tropical only”Oral–fecal, especially on PrEP holidays abroadEpisodic abd pain, tenesmus

In a 2023 European cohort of 165 MSM, 81 % of men with intestinal spirochetosis reported unprotected rimming, and diarrhea was the leading complaint. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Systematic reviews now list oral–anal sex as a major, but under-recognised, route for giardiasis. sciencedirect.com
A U.S. study of STI-clinic patients found provider awareness of these “enteric STIs” was low, leading to repeated misdiagnoses of IBS or lactose intolerance. pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov


3. Tom’s clinic pearls

I can’t count how many guys have walked into Tom of P-Town Health convinced they had “chronic IBS.” A three-day O+P panel plus a rapid multiplex PCR later and—boom—GiardiaBrachyspira, or a stealth Shigella shows up. Most clear with a short course of tinidazole, doxy-metronidazole combo, or tailored antibiotics, and the “IBS” vanishes. Moral: treat the bug, not the label.


4. When to get tested

Red-flag storyRecommended labs
Gas/bloating that flares after rimming weekendsStool O+P × 3 on separate days plus a PCR enteric pathogen panel


Chronic loose stools, unexplained weight loss


PCR panel; consider colon biopsy if PCR/O+P negative but symptoms persist

Rectal bleeding, mucous


Add culture for Shigella/Campylobacter and anorectal STI NAAT

Ask specifically for O+P and molecular testing—many gastroenterology work-ups stop at celiac serologies and colonoscopy.


5. Rim-smart harm-reduction checklist

  1. Freshen up. Brief anal shower or wet-wipe reduces infectious load.

  2. Vaccinate. HAV & HBV are fecal-oral; update your shots.

  3. Probiotic rebound. Finish antibiotics? Rebuild the microbiome with high-CFU multi-strain probiotics.

  4. Symptom diary. Track GI flares against sexual activity; patterns matter.


Bottom line

Rimming can be intensely pleasurable and culturally significant in queer intimacy—but it also ferries a lineup of gut bugs most straight-centric textbooks barely mention. If you rim, have rimmed, or love someone who does, keep the dialogue open, know the red flags, and don’t let an undiagnosed pathogen masquerade as “just IBS.”

Gut feeling off? Hit us up at Tom of P-Town Health—screening is quick, treatment is easy, and pleasure shouldn’t come with chronic diarrhea.


Quick-read references

  1. Pérez-Tanoira R, et al. Increased Prevalence of Symptomatic Human Intestinal Spirochetosis in MSM with High-Risk Sexual Behaviour. Trop Med Infect Dis. 2023. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

  2. Escobedo AA, et al. Sexual Transmission of Giardiasis: A Neglected Route of Spread? Acta Trop. 2014. sciencedirect.com

  3. Chow EPF, et al. Enteric Infections in Men Who Have Sex with Men. Clin Infect Dis. 2022. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

  4. Poole DN, et al. Provider Awareness of Sexually Transmitted Enteric Pathogens in MSM. Sex Transm Infect.2024. pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

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